Do I expect too much out of my relationship?

to be honest im not gonna read it all lol, but just do this go up to her and say babe lets do what you wanna do e.g this weekend and if she wants to go to a movie you dont wanna just go anyways, make her feel special and 'ask' her what she wants to do and if she says nothing just sleep then go ok im free e.g this weekend if you wanna do something then say i love you