Is my vagina small? And will he be able to find it and get it in?

I'm ready for sex and some point soon, I need to know if he'll be able to find my vagina, he IS large and I thnk I'm small? I can fit three fingers inbut that's obviously not te same? can I stretch myself? Youbcan really feel the hole unles you push around, plus it's small, like size of a 10p when I open it when I'm relaxxed? And will he know if im a virgin, he has only been with non-virgins? Will it hurt him? so confused! the edges o my hole are like wiggly now, I don't even know whch bits hymen and which bits normal? help